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Male sex drive

By Learner on Apr 17, 2017 at 9:48 AM

My husband loves me and my body. he always wants sex and foreplay. He loves giving me massages that he sometimes tries to turn into orgasms. He seems to always be hard or nearly hard. He is 78 years old, I am 69. He wants me to always rub his penis flaccid or erect. Is this much sex drive normal? He sometimes has a hard time keeping an erection and reaching an orgasm. He stays hard for me to have an orgasm during intercourse. I have no feeling in my clit and I don't like him fingering me. I don't like receiving oral sex or him playing in my pussy. He says he needs the foreplay and oral sex to get stimulated. He also wants me to learn how to massage and oral his penis to orgasm when he can't reach it in me.

He says he loves me anyway, but he is not happy. What should I do? I would like for him to be happy.

Mrs. Learner

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Kate McCombs, MPH | Apr 17, 2017 at 2:55 PM | Reply | Report

It sounds like his sex drive is on the high end of normal, but certainly not atypical. But whether or not it's normal doesn't sound like the issue - you and he want different amounts of sex and want different types of stimulation.

You say you would like him to be happy. Are you comfortable learning how to pleasure him with your hands and mouth?

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