I'm a queer Aussie guy. Years ago I met a guy through friends and ended up staying with him. I was quite infatuated but knew he was straight ...at least until he asked me to fool around with him so in my lust I leapt at the chance. He next morning we agreed the pass it off as a drunken experiment. But I was falling for him big time. I told him how I felt and he rejected me. it took me a long time to get over him. We stayed in contact but just as mates. A year later we met and it happened again. This has now happened several times over the years. Each time the sex is better. Each time I tell myself not to get emotionally involved. At best he's bi and that this is unrequited love. We have confided a lot of things so it hurts when he goes cold. I really need advice. Do I end all contact? I'm trying hard to just get over him but it's been going on for more than 7 years! My friends tell me it's all bad news and to never see him again but my heart leaps when he contacts me. Can anyone help?