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Reasons why I think my partner is bi (but won't admit it)

By tardisblue90 on Apr 30, 2017 at 12:57 AM

Before I start, we have a great sex life and I can confidently say he enjoys me.


Reasons why I think my partner is bi (but won't admit it)

I found my partners profile on a few gay dating sites.
I said that if he was gay,bi, curious or whatever, to just tell me - let me know he wants to try things with other people. He said he was straight and he didn't create the dating profiles, end of story.

He loves using/recieving anal toys. He really gets off from it, like a lot.

I've found HEAPS of tranny porn on his phone history, when confronted he admits he's watched it, but its not his "top searched porn" lol.

A bit of a weird one, but he seems to like cumming on himself? There's six hundred other places he could cum, but he always chooses his chest.

I'm totally down with his behavior, I've even offered to invite a third person to "party" with... But he always gets "serious" and says no.

So yeah,those are my reasons.

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Kate McCombs, MPH | May 2, 2017 at 4:12 PM | Reply | Report

It sounds like you have some concerns about the trust and honesty in your relationship. I can see why.

I'm wondering what made you search for him on the dating sites to begin with? Has there been some reasons for you to distrust him and think he may be cheating on you?

Enjoying anal toys and wanting to ejaculate on himself is in no way evidence of any kind that he's bisexual. All men have nerve endings in their anuses and rectums, plus highly sexually-sensitive prostates. Even the straightest of men can enjoy stimulation of these areas. And the cumming on his chest thing is a tad unusual, but it's in no way indicative of any homosexual inclinations by itself.

I know that he's doing some things that are violating your trust, but did you have permission to go through his phone history? That can be quite a trust-damaging thing to do in a relationship.

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