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Turned on by boyfriend with other women...

By sugarplum on Apr 17, 2017 at 5:02 AM

I am so turned on by the thought of my boyfriend becoming arouse by other women. Being with other women. Talking about other women. It's gotten to the point where I want to see him with someone else. I want a threesome and I want to sit back and watch. I am so turned on by his pleasure it's unreal. i never would've been able to do this in the past and it wouldn't have turned me on in the past. But for most of a year it's been in my head that I want this. Why would I go from being more of the jealous type who would never share her man, to wanting to see him with another woman? This makes no sense and I feel crazy.

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Kate McCombs, MPH | Apr 17, 2017 at 2:51 PM | Reply | Report

It is very common for people to have desires change and emerge over time. Desires and fantasies are not static - they can show up out of nowhere like the one you describe. It doesn't mean you're crazy.

The thing to figure out is whether this is something that you just want to fantasize about or whether it's something you actually want to do in real life.

sarahb | Apr 19, 2017 at 4:23 AM | Reply | Report

I think the previous answer is pretty enlightening. You need to figure out whether this is ONLY a fantasy or something you want to become reality. Reality is not always what you imagine.

Seeing your bf appear as if he is more excited, and seeing him cum faster, may not excite you so much as you think.

On the other hand, if you are ready to move forward, 1) you should choose the female to join you and 2) talk about the rules first.

Kevin | Apr 22, 2017 at 4:32 PM | Reply | Report

If this is something you really want, and he wants it too, you should discuss this with your BF and tell him if you want to be in FMF threesome or just sit in the chair close to the bed and watch him pleasure another woman. Just be sure you really want it.

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