Frustrated in bedI'm a man in his upper 30's. I started dating a woman around my age who I really like, a few weeks ago. She had me over for dinner last Friday then again on Monday. Both times the chemistry has been great and we ended up in her bedroom. Long story short, once in the bedroom I can't seem to keep a bonér. I'm pretty sure she can tell I'm hard during foreplay.
I've decided I'm going to change my diet and lose some weight.I also am going to be getting a Physical to rule out illness, etc. I'm not opposed to pharmaceutical help, but would like to hold off.
I guess my question is- Should I be straight forward with her? I'm afraid I'll scare her off.