He is too unfit for sex...I need help. I really like someone but they are overweight.
I stayed at his and we had sex for the first time...but I felt used and it was horrible. He wasn't interested on anything other than lying there and letting me do the work.
He made an excuse of being too tired...then another excuse that he was with other girls who were dominant in the bedroom and that's what they wanted.I told him I'm not like that and sex if 50/50.
Next time we had sex he tried going on top and to be fair he did ok but I stayed the weekend...and that was it. He was so physically exhausted from going on top once he couldn't for the next 2 days and again I had to do all the work. He tried going down on me once because of what I had said about feeling he was uninterested but even with that he only did it once. It was like to prove a point rather than to please me.
I just don't know what to do, I've never met or been with anyone who has been too unfit to have sex. I feel used in bed but I like this person too...