Elissa Jaymes on May 2, 2017 at 2:30 AM
You say you want to talk to him about your desires, but have you and he spoken about your sexual needs yet? While I think he should be more generous with pleasuring you independently of you bringing it up, he can't read your mind. You may need to be direct that you want him to pleasure you in different ways. If he's not responsive to that, you may need to evaluate how much you want to be dating him. There are plenty of generous lovers out there who would be happy to hear about what you want in bed.