Upnorth on May 5, 2017 at 8:11 PM
The first thing to talk about with you wife is would this be a sexy and appealing thing to *her*. Have you talked about fantasies with her in the past? Has she shared fantasies with you? Find out if she is enthusiastic about the idea first before you think about bringing a stranger or friend into the mix.
I've thought about watching my husband with another woman, but I'm not sure the reality would live up to the fantasy. If we were to do it, I would opt for a stranger. There's no way I could ever look at a friend the same way; especially if it was a bad experience.