The Good in Bed Forums matching “infidelity”


I am a 34 year old male married for 10 years. I married my best friend and our relationship is pretty much ideal in every way except sex. We are not sexually compatible at all and I was too young... Continue

Sexless marriage, infidelity, and premature ejaculation

Thank you to whoever reads to the end, because this started short and ended up being incredibly long. I am 35 years old, married for 7 years (we have been together for 10), and have suffered from severe PE since... Continue

Our Cheating Hearts

Is fidelity too much to expect from a committed couple? From open relationships to "negotiated monogamy" there seem to be more and more headlines in the news these days about whether or not fidelity really makes sense? Do we need... Continue


I had a sexual relationship with my secretary; she initiated it but lately she is acting like nothing happened. We are both married. I am very confused and don't know how to respond.... Continue

sex with wife

i love my wife but she doesn't arouse me sexually anymore, i all the time fantasize about other woman, and if the opportunity arises i am sure i will cheat on her. should i get divorced. i also care about... Continue

Just a friend

So I found out that my husband of 21 years has been having a "Friendship" with a tenant of my parents. I found tons of phone calls and texts messages to her phone and from her phone to him as... Continue

I am a cheater.....

My husband has been incarcerated for about 6 years, and up until last year, i did not cheat on him. I am a very sexual person and view sex as an important part of a marriage. I think that it... Continue


I'm 53 and have been married for 30 years with 3 children all in their 20's. My relationship with my wife is great except for intimacy. Its never been great and over the last 5 years or so its been... Continue

Are the reasons for infidelity more simple then people think?

I have been reading through a lot of posts on this site coming from married people that are currently in affairs. As I have never been married, I want to ask a simple question and open that up for discussion:... Continue

Is He Cheating?

I am 48 years old and my partner is 43. We have been in this relationship for 11 years. It has been 8 years since me and my partner have had sex,he does not talk to me but watch TV... Continue

I Have the Overwhelming Urge to Cheat

I am an unmarried young lady who has been in a relationship for 4 years with 1 child. We are good together. We are building a productive life together but I too often feel lonely and undesired. He works 2... Continue

Marriage problem associated with BPD? How can I tell? :(

I have been trying to work on my marriage which seems to be failing. Recently found out shes "fallen out of love" with me. She has hid it for 2yrs and its ever more obvious to close friends on both... Continue

Emotional Affair---I Guess

I met up with a guy I went to high school with last year and he had a girlfriend. We became best friends immediately...I could talk to him about anything and vice versa. Well a couple of months in it... Continue

Wife's Loss of Desire

I know this question is as old as mankind, but what do you do when your wife loses all desire for sex, and other women find you very attractive. She is still beautiful and fit after 24 years of marriage.... Continue

Love and Birth Control

I have posted on here since the start of the site, My wife and I have problems. We are now separating. I have been in a sexless marriage for over 2 years. I have accused her of cheating on me... Continue


My wife started sexting with an old boyfriend I have asked her to stop. I explained my displeasure in her actions, she started sending nude photos to him. I am not happy with her actions but she won't stop. She... Continue

No Sex in Marriage the Last 4 Months

I don't know what is going on with me and my wife for the last four months we haven't been sexually involved and about 6 months ago I found a different guys phone number on her cell phone this is... Continue

Cant get over infidelity

It has been three years since I found out that my husband has cheated on me. We have been married 18 years, and he started cheating on me after we have been married for 7 years. This past year I... Continue

I've Been Having an Affair...

I'm a 33 year old woman. Until 7 months ago I thought my marriage was good. I've been with my husband for 15 years. I never thought I was capable of being unfaithful. I have a good husband, 2 beautiful... Continue

Sharing Erotic Fantasies / Emails

Married 30+yrs no sex 17 yrs, says not interested, trust me, not for my lack of trying. I'm VERY open to about ANYTHING. After Thanksgiving told him can quit hiding from me, will not pressure him for sex or touching... Continue

I Want To Cheat, What Do I Do?

I've been in love with my bf for about 6 years. We dated for 4 years, broke up several times, and have recently gotten back together. We went for a year without seeing one another, and I missed him terribly.... Continue

Honesty About One's Self

My husband freely admitted to me that he struggled with his sexuality - he sees homosexuality as a sin. His therapists have told him that his sexual struggles were the result of an over-bearing mother who molested him, a weak... Continue

ED After Affair

3 years ago, I discovered my wife had an affair. As we were going through a very tough period with me trying to decide if I wanted to stay in the marriage, the sex was happening much more frequently, 5-7... Continue

Massage parlor experience

I love my wife but she has been non responsive sexually for years. Recently I have begun visiting upscale massage parlors for erotic massage with a hand release. I find this incredibly erotic while not having full sexual relations it... Continue

No Sex Drive

ok i see lots of ladies asking why husband has no sex drive but i don't see any men asking why the wife has no sex drive ok i am asking i am 44 years old male and we have... Continue

Why Do I Do This?

I am 24 will be 25 in August. I am about to get married to my high school sweetheart of 11yrs in May. We have a 2 yr old daughter together. I have recently been cheating on him. I actually... Continue

Facebooking too Freely??

Hello, I just read the article on about Facebooking old flames and how to avoid going down that slippery slope. Great article. However, my question is about Facebook flirting with new or current friends. My girlfriend is constantly connecting... Continue


How do I get over jealousy? My husband is extremely loyal and supportive, loving but sometimes I still get really afraid that he is cheating on me. He hasn't shown any reason for me to think that he's cheating, I... Continue

Weird Desires That I Can't Shake

My first wife and I had what I have always considered a good sex life. We both enjoyed the sex, and the oral sex. She had a problem with swallowing, but finally conquered that, and in so doing decided we... Continue


I have been with my fiance for a little over 5 years and we have a one year old. I have been having an affair (which I'm not proud of) over the internet. I have yet to have sex but... Continue