The Good in Bed Forums matching “masturbation”

Wife masturbates behind my back

My wife and have been married for over 20 years with 2 teenage children. I purchased a vibrator a few years in an effort to "spark" our sex life. It did work. However, she now complains she has little to... Continue

Masturbation in the shower vs. sex in bed with my wife.

Ok, I've been reading several of the questions and answers here, and while they all hit home on my topic, none of them fit like a glove so here I am. I love my wife, I really do. I want... Continue

I have a problem with ejaculating too hard

I've had a problem over the years that when I ejaculate, I need at least a 6 to 12 hours (depending on the day) to re-cooperate until I start again. When I masturbate, its the same. My main question is,... Continue

Can't have orgasm/Sex Addiction

I'm a 29 year old male who has dealt with the guilt and shame of sex addiction since in 5th grade. Since that time, I have found it necessary to masturbate 2-3 times daily. My habits have moved to web... Continue


Is there something one could do other than seek personal counsel to address the problem of masturbation? I did spend a good bit of time in counseling a number of years ago, it did help but I have returned to... Continue


Hello. My issue is with sensitivity. For the past year or so I can have sex for an hour or longer and never get to a feeling close to climax. In most cases, I can't feel anything other than a... Continue

Interesting Masturbation Article

I read your article on masturbation and feel it strikes home for me. I have had girlfriends and love women but lately have avoided relationships. I watch porn 2-4x week and not sure if this is a problem. I also... Continue

Is it me?

I recently found out the guy I am dating has been going to porn sites when I am at work. I walked in on him masturbating one morning when he thought I was sleeping. It upset me because I have... Continue

Fear is Ruining my Sex Life

Growing up in the 80s, fear of AIDS was huge, and definitely impacted my relationship with sex. I was never ever to truly enjoy it wholeheartedly, as I always had an ember of fear in the back of my brain.... Continue

Do I have PE?

I'm 30 yrs and unmarried. I don't have sex but I have a habit of masturbation. I ejaculate within 1 min while masturbation. I underwent for surgery twice as I have problem in left hip. At that time taken medication.... Continue

Problems Ejaculating/Orgasms

I am a 29 year old male. The last two women I have had sex with, I have had some problems achieving orgasm. It is just so frustrating. I mean I lasted for a long time, the ladies certainly didn't... Continue

Bent Penis

I did read a post about this on your site, but it was very general and I wanted more info if possible. My situation is this. After the birth of our 1st child my wife decided there was no more... Continue

More and More ;-)

I am not sure what I am asking.....but I will try in few words. We simply adore each other, just got married after 3 years of relationship, sex is if you ask me rare but very good. We have sex... Continue

Erectile Dysfunction

I am having a problem maintaining erection during sex with wife. There has been a lot of stress in my life over past 12 months. We had been considering divorce due to her being unfaithful but have decided to remain... Continue

Male Sexual Issues

What is the best thing to do when you feel as to have sex, and your partner is not around?... Continue

Sex vs Masturbation?

Is it normal for a guy to say they prefer masturbation to sex?... Continue

Making Love, Porn and Orgasm

Hello, I have been dating a man(50years old)and I am 40, who can only have an orgasm when i give him oral sex, masturbating or having sex when watching pornography. The few times we have tried to have sex or... Continue


I am only able to reach an orgasm with self stimulation only. Have never been able to with just sex alone. Uggg how can I make sex feel like my own self stimulation to have an orgasm through sex alone.... Continue

Orgasm During Masturbation...

I have never been able to achieve an orgasm through masturbation. I usually always achieve orgasm through sexual penetration...not clitoral, oral or manual. Any advice on how to achieve this?... Continue

Masturbation for First Time at 33

Over the last couple of weeks I have been experimenting with masturbation for the 1st time in my life. I am now 33 yrs old, and had recently purchased an rabbit vibe/Dildo. I know that I have great and sometimes... Continue

Masturbation Problem

I am a 24 year old guy, i have a big problem of quick ejaculation. i cant go for 1 minute without ejaculation. am disturb and tired of this. what can i do? my girlfriend is really concern about this... Continue

Better Than Botox: Seven Reasons to Have Sex Tonight

Read the above article on our local newspaper's Web site. The author, Ian Kerner, lists seven benefits to regular sex. My question is this, I am in a non-physical relationship. Of the 30 years that we have been together, we... Continue

Sexual Reciprocity

After having sex with my boyfriend, if he's in the mood for round 2, even if I'm not, I will give him head, a hand job or sometimes "take one for the team" (intercourse without an orgasm for myself). However,... Continue


Just read your online article on porn. I'm a 67 yr old male and still as sexually active as ever. Trouble is that my wife was diagnosed with COPD [lung disease] in 1996 and thats when all physical activity stopped... Continue

Learning to come without use of my own hand again

I (47M) am in a relationship with an incredible woman (41). We are totally in love, and have a mature, thrilling sexual relationship as well as a wonderful relationship outside the bedroom. But, I have a problem - prior to... Continue

25+ Years with Pornography

As a young man I discovered masturbation when I was 13. Due to some - I suspect - harsh treatment from nannies when I was 4-5 years old I have always been a bit of a loner, and not emotionally/socially... Continue

I Lost My Female Ejaculation!

I am a 26 year old woman in a long term relationship with a man. I occasionally masturbate, usually to pornography. One of my most recent preferences include movies where women ejaculate... mainly because I've lost my own. I "squirted"... Continue

Women's Clothes

I find it highly arousing to use my partner's clothes that she has worn during masturbation. Her lingerie drives me wild. Her scent and the feel of the material really do it for me. Panties in particular are a favorite... Continue

Problem with Erection

First the background. I am 55 , divorced two years ago after 32 years of marriage. I have masturbated from my teen years. I developed a addiction to porn before my divorce. I also started having problems getting or holding... Continue

Confused About Masturbation and New to Dating

I am a 40 year old woman with a 15 month old child. I am newly single and starting to date. I have been asked by a couple of the men I have dated if I masturbate. I typically answer... Continue