The Good in Bed Forums matching “sex rut”

sex: few and far between...

My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have been together for almost 10. We have 2 kids and crazy jobs. Our sex life has become non-existent. Once every 3-4 months or more. In our entire relationship,... Continue

Bored in the Bedroom

People change. Relationships change. Why should your sex life stay the same? Falling into a routine is natural, but what do you do when sexual boredom starts to settle in?... Continue

Wife masturbates behind my back

My wife and have been married for over 20 years with 2 teenage children. I purchased a vibrator a few years in an effort to "spark" our sex life. It did work. However, she now complains she has little to... Continue

How do I get our relationship back on track and our sex life as well?

Me and my boyfriend have been together not even two years, and just recently we have had a beautiful little girl. But with our relationship and love life, I feel like it is going down hill. We do not have... Continue

I don't even call it a rut...

My wife and I have not had much of a sex life since we married. The few years before we married were amazing, while i realize marriage and two children change things, especially getting pregnant soon after marriage and having... Continue

Sex...or lack there of.

My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half. We met under odd circumstances but when we first got together sex was AMAZING! We were intimate very often. At least 7 days a week if not... Continue

Husband shows no affection...or sex!

I'm so hurt right now. For quite a long time my husband of 10 years shows little to no affection. I've talked to him a lot about it, and he always just brushes me off. Our sex life is little... Continue


My husband has not made love to me in over a year. we've been married 15 years. The last years have been at the most, 4 times a year. We're both in our 50s.... Continue

Disinterested wife....

Hello all. I don't know where to begin. I'm completely heartbroken over this. This is my second marraige (hers too) and while we were dating I made it a POINT to let her know (so she clearly understood) that I... Continue

Low Sex Drive

My husband and I have been married for 3 years, and have an almost 2 year old. My sex drive is STILL feeling the effect of having a baby. It's just not there. My husband works out of town for... Continue

Things don't work

This is my perspective but perspective is reality. I need an unbiased opinion; is my perspective skewed. My wife and I have been married for 39 years. We both have a Phd and have done well economically but our relationship... Continue

In a Sexless Marriage

My wife of 13years was diagnosed w/fibromialgia about 4 years ago. Our sex life was never average it has always been below average in perfornmance and frequency. Now for the last 2 to 2.5 years non exsistant. I have been... Continue

Hubby no sex drive~

My hubby is a diabetic and take drugs for cholestrol,high blood pressure and insulin for diabetes. He was using testim for several months.He mostly noticed it in his body (strength & muscle)and not in his sex drive. The cost of... Continue

Sexually Stagnant Marriage (Young Couple)

I am 23 and my wife is 22. We lost our virginity to each other when we were still in high school. I know she has only been with one man other than me and I have only ever been... Continue