The Good in Bed Forums matching “sexless marriage”

Too many problems, don't know where to start. Here goes...

My wife and I have been married for four years and a couple for ten. We had a wonderful sex life early in college then life, stress, and her friends and family got in the way. It was wonderful while... Continue

doesn't maintain erection

my 52 yo husband is relatively healthy except that he began smoking a pack a day of cigarettes 3 years ago. about that time, I gained a lot of weight (almost 50 pounds) We've had progressively less frequent sex over... Continue

Low libido or chronic masturbator?

This is kind of complicated but it bugs me to no end. I'm 50 years old. My husband and I have been married for just less than 3 years. Before we got married we had a terrific sex life. He... Continue

Now afraid of sex after 33 years of marriage

My wife and I have been married for 33 years and I recently started to be afraid of having sex with her. I know that sounds weird and feel weird for even talking about it. Due to non cancerous... Continue

Sexless marriage, infidelity, and premature ejaculation

Thank you to whoever reads to the end, because this started short and ended up being incredibly long. I am 35 years old, married for 7 years (we have been together for 10), and have suffered from severe PE since... Continue

why no desire for sex?

Typical family. we have been married a little over 10 years. she had two boys when we met. the boys have been mine ever since we met. in fact, when we got married, we didn't have a best man or... Continue

Husband doesn't want SEX!!!!

I'm a 29 years old, mother of two ages 2 and 3. Yes, I've lost all the baby weight and am in good shape. 5'4 120. My husband and I have been together for a little over 10 years. (he... Continue

Husband has trouble getting hard.

My husband and I have been having what I consider a "dry spell" Maybe once a week.. . .sometimes two. Sometimes he will have trouble getting hard, or staying hard. He is only 29 years old. He did see a... Continue

My wife has decreased interest in sex

I am 38 and my wife is 33 but now she has no interest in sex. She dislike the sex. She dislikes foreplay and dislikes to be kissed and is not prepared for sex. Therefore she feels uncomfortable during the... Continue

marital celibacy

I am in a child-centric marriage. For the past 15 years (since my youngest was born) my wife and I have sex about three times a year. And it's not good sex, either. My youngest will graduate in three years... Continue

Sex is almost gone.

My wife and I have been married for almost 30 years. We love each other very much but "Sex is almost gone". We both work normal schedules and when we are together enjoy spending time. We both take anti-depressants for... Continue

Sex is just not important to my wife

My wife & I are both early 40s /married for 16 years. We're in love and have a strong relationship in almost all areas. Unfortunately, she is not interested in sex, and never really has been. Anyone close to us... Continue

My wife has no sexual desire

I am a married 36 year old with two kids(7,2). I think my wife still loves me but has no desire to touch me much less have any kind of sexual relationship with me. I think we have had sex... Continue

Wife Has No Desire

I've been married for 39 years this Saturday. I overheard my wife telling a friend approx 25 years ago that she didn't get anything out of sex. I gave up trying until recently when I started trying to experiment and... Continue

Sexless Marriage

I was reading your article about having sex at least once a week, but what about those of us that have a spouse that cannot have sex? My husband is diabetic and apparently had not been taking good care of... Continue

His Low-Libido

My husband of 8 years has a low sex-drive. I am 38 years old and he is 45. His sex drive has significantly dwindled in the last 5 years to the point that we have intercourse maybe 6 times A... Continue


I am married and in my late 30's with 2 kids. My wife is completely frigid, and I can't stand it anymore. We have sex maybe twice a year, and even then she is not passionate or into it. Plus,... Continue

When Is It Time To Give Up?

I just read the article about Sex and the Baby Years, and it tells Dad's not to give up on sex. Well, it's been five years since the kids arrived, and this past year we've managed to make love maybe... Continue

Giving Up On Sex

This is a follow up to a previous question I asked earlier. When I'm honest with myself about my wife's lack of interest in sex, and her unwillingness to work on it with me, I know that an unfulfilling sex... Continue

Husband Has No Interest In Sex

My husband and I are in our early 40's, we both work outside the home and we have two elementary school aged children. My husband has lost all interest in sex and we have not had sex for several years.... Continue

Sexless Marriage

My wife and I got married very early in life. She was 20 and I was 21, so at this point we have been married over 25 years. For the last 10, we only intimate about 4 to 5 a... Continue

Sharing Erotic Fantasies / Emails

Married 30+yrs no sex 17 yrs, says not interested, trust me, not for my lack of trying. I'm VERY open to about ANYTHING. After Thanksgiving told him can quit hiding from me, will not pressure him for sex or touching... Continue

Too Much Porn?

I've been in a committed relationship for 18 years. I have not had sex for the last 5. my husband performs oral on me and that's it. the last time we had intercourse and he ejaculated was 5 years ago... Continue

Reintroduce Sex into my Marriage

For the life of me, I cannot get some sort of normal sex life reintroduced into my marriage. We are in our mid-40's, healthy, and fairly happy. The problem is that my wife has no interest is sex at all.... Continue

Double standard

Why is there a double standard in a marriage when it comes to sex? If the woman says not tonight the man should understand. But if the man so no! He must be getting from somewhere else? What's going on... Continue

Empty Nesters One Day Raising Grandchildren The Next!

We have had custody of our sons two children. Our adult daughter has moved back home. We have been married near 40 years we married young. Our sex life could have always used more heat. Now there is nothing! It... Continue

In a Sexless Marriage

My wife of 13years was diagnosed w/fibromialgia about 4 years ago. Our sex life was never average it has always been below average in perfornmance and frequency. Now for the last 2 to 2.5 years non exsistant. I have been... Continue

sex with wife.

I've never done this before so here we go. my wife and I (2nd marriage) have been married going on 23 years. I myself like sex. once a week won't set to good with the wife. she thinks that is... Continue

My Husband Has No Interest in Sex with Me

I'm 26 my husband's 31 we married nearly 2 years ago. 6mos into our marriage, he stopped having sex. After 6mos I convinced him to go to a sex therapist w/me but nothing changed. I began to internalize this, feeling... Continue

Increase Married Sex

I have really tried to increase the sex in my marriage and things are not going well. My sex drive is high ( 4 to 5 times a week) my wife sex drive is low (1 to 2 times a... Continue